Field Report

[vale85]

So I have been hanging out with one girl for the past weekend and yesterday as well.. She is here only for this week, but when I go home for two weeks after classes are done up here.. then I will prob see her for those two weeks as well.. We planned on hanging out last night.. she said she would call after work and she did. I made her wait a little until I picked her up so that I could go to the gym with my roomate.. I picked her up around 9:30.. we went to a really cool coffee shop that is on a lake. We chilled in the coffee shop.. had some relatively deep conversations.. then began to walk around the lake and talk more.. we talked about personal stuff etc.. and we seem to have things in common.. She is about two years older than me.. but it is no big deal... Unfortunately.. she is staying with her sister for the weeks she is up here in Tally.. and one of my friends that I met her through told the sister that I am a "player" or some bs like that.. I'm really mad about that because I don't consider myself a player.. but I explained that to this girl... and she doesn't get along with her sister or my friend anyways.. so I think I got through to her.. After we left the coffee shop.. we ended up going to the bank for her to withdraw money.. then I dropped her off.. I would play the cocky guy attitude here and there.. and it seems to work.. negging as well..Also... as we got to her apartment... we were still in teh car.. and I looked at her and said: "I know you've been wanting to kiss me, so I guess we should just get it over with,".. she jokingly said, "Well if you're gonna act like that".. and pretended to open the car door.. in which case I grabbed her hand.. and just went for it.. and she responded.. I also said she was a good kisser as well.. she seems to not take compliments well sometimes..but I think she liked it.. we made plans for tonight as well to get sushi.. maybe with some of the other friends as well.. I'm just frustrated because her sister is somewhat protective over her. and is somewhat coservative..but I did learn something important with her at the coffee shop:..a big mistake on my part... I kept mentioning the fact that her sis prob didn't like me. and that my other friend was prob mad at me too. and she told me not to keep bringing it up. b/c it is unattractive.. I shut up about it the rest of the night.. but things still went well.. it shall be a continuing story.. but I definetly received much needed advice through the forum. and I plan on continuing to get advice as well.. thanks again guys